As maintain family psychologists, the first year of married life – the most difficult. But take a look at this slightly different angle, and you will see that this period has its positive side. You will finally learn about your partner all that was carefully hidden for a long time. This means that you will become closer and dearer. Now you can fully trust each other. Do with such things before marriage make you blush.
To know about your favorite all man, does not mean depriving yourself of pleasure to solve it as a puzzle. This means that you can give your partner extra moments of joy, using new knowledge about it. For example, listening to your singing unbearable halves in the bathroom, you can get away with a great idea to install a shower enclosure with built-in radio. And it's easier, and your partner happy. After the wedding eventually takes place and that the primitive passion, which brought you together. All become commonplace and natural.
But this honey is just one side. On the other, you get a lot of new faces of your relationship. You have nothing to lose, you modify it, it all began. So way, you begin to understand each other, literally, at a glance. Perceived shortcomings of existing partner for granted. Catch the mood of a loved one with a glance at him. In addition, this stage, there is a very important sense, a mutual appreciation. Without this sense is not a mature love. And it was she who comes to you in marriage. Mature love, why you walked in the course of your relationship. It is this love – the basis of a happy marriage. Sometimes it happens that a wedding does not change partners, they remain the same as they were before. Therefore, the relations do not change. This is explained by the fact that the couple from the very beginning of their relationship is not tried to "show off" in each other's eyes. They behaved quite naturally, so no surprises after the wedding was not expected. Everything remained the same, as if nothing had happened. But it happens infrequently. And sooner or later, the couple will also overcome its crises relations. Time brings about changes in everything that happens around us. Whatever it was, what awaits you after the wedding is up to you. Psychologists provide common definitions and characteristics of each of the possible family crises. But this does not mean that you have lived through all that is painted in clever books and other literature. Each family is deeply individualistic, with its own characteristics, traditions and experiences. And how you behave towards your own family and partner, depends on just how strong is your union. Therefore, try to listen to each other, appreciate and respect the opinion of the partner. Be tolerant of the manifested character traits and weaknesses of a loved one. And then you realize that after the marriage relationship only getting stronger and gaining momentum.